Tips to convince a women to date you!

Many men have a hard time convincing a woman to date him or simply hook up. You may be wondering how to convince her to go out on a date. She has many reasons why she is not ready to date you, or not ready to hook-up. If this is the case for you, here are some tips to turn that no into you yes!

Man and woman lying together

Tip 1- Don’t try to convince her!

While this tip seems to defeat the object, being overly persistent will only push her away even further! You might think that you are being cute and showing her how keen you are, or that she will find your tenacity appealing. But what she sees is a creepy desperate man that won’t take no for an answer, (don’t be that guy!) no one wants to be pressured into something!

Tip 2- Chill!

When you approach a woman, and you are met with an initial no, your reaction will completely determine if you she will change her mind or not. While no one likes rejection, handling this is the right way can change everything! Be calm and relaxed, take a breath and just let it go. The key is to act maturely and almost unbothered, but not to the extreme of rudeness! By doing this, you are showing her you are not putting her under any pressure, and you are cool with the fact she doesn’t want you. Leave the conversation and allow her to come to you, trust us, she will be curious and will want to try and win your affections back.

Tip 3- Let her think it is her idea!

As with tip 2 you want her to conclude that the initial date is her idea. Sometimes the best thing that you can do, is drop some subtle hints, but let her suggest the two of you should meet up. This allows her to feel that she is in control and that there is pressure.

Tip 4- Put your best foot forward

You should always be yourself and be honest about what you are expecting from dating. Having a man chasing after you that doesn’t know what they want always going to be off putting. Be honest about who you are and what you want. You may find that this difficult or believe that if you tell her what she wants to hear, she will fall at your feet. She won’t!

Tip 5- Avoid the initial love bombing

While it may be tempting to tell her how amazing she is, and promising her the earth, it can sometimes be too much! Love bombing might get you somewhere with some women, but for the most part, they know what you are doing and won’t always fall for this tactic. Sure, be nice, be responsive, but don’t go overboard.

Tip 6- Let her chase you and don’t be too available!

If you are always chomping at the bit, and spending all your time talking to her, you will look as though you have nothing else going on in your life. Sometimes the best thing you can do is take a step back and let her feel your absence, in doing so, she will see that you don’t “need” her in your life. Women are attracted to things they can’t always have, use this to your advantage!

While these tips may seem obvious, or as though you will miss out because you are not interested, they will ignite her curious nature. The more she sees that you are fine with rejection, or okay with her not wanting you, it will spark her need and desire to have you. Give these tips a try, and remember to have fun!